Overthinking.

After giving (not really) much thought into this...i was thinking about what exactly is important in a guy i like or love or whatever...  hahaha
Here goes nothing: (in no particular order)

-funny (makes ME laugh)

-intelligent(smarter than me, not hard to beat)

-Spiritual (priesthood, being worthy, has a testimony, etc) ...(i need someone who works hard to stay worthy, just like me)

-caring (its nice to have someone care about you....oh yeah! and others)

-knows how to have a good time and be silly, but knows when to be serious (wish i knew that quality...kidding!)

-is a gentlemen (what is hotter than a guy is polite and opens doors for you and is awesome?! nothing.)

-has direction/ motivation (something i tend to lack at times)

-is ok with just sitting at home watching movies sometimes (because, duh. it can fun)

-puts up with me and my antics (not sure what antics means, but its sounds right..and no one is perfect)

-enjoys the same music i do (VERY important...its sorta my life)

-treats me well ( i deserve to be treated like a lady...who doesn't?)

-supports me in the things i do (comes to watch me dance, is proud of my photography and loves me more for them)

-is clean (if you know me, you will know why)

-obviously good with children (can't raise kids on my own, are you kidding?!)

-strong (spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and wouldn't kill him to be strong physically...but i won't hold it against him)

-knows how to make me smile when all i want to do is cry (eh, who are we kidding...usually i can find my way out of my own mess...but just in case, extra support is always welcome)

-someone who makes me work harder to be a better person (i can never give up trying to be better)
-someone that no matter what, will love me. (i have flaws, and ALWAYS will...and i can joke about them just as easily as the next person, but they might always be there, regardless of how hard i try)

-nice teeth/smile (i know, i know...but its just really nice when they do! haha)

-listens when i talk (even if they don't care, which most of the time they might not, but at least there to talk to)

-helps me get through what i'm going through (i'll be there for him if he is there for me...teamwork!)

-someone who laughs WITH me when i say/do dumb things...(its something that i will always do...but its more funny when im laughing with you..and their not just laughing at me)

-not a requirement...but...if he can sing...(i'm his)

-has similar likes as i do, but has his own interests that i can like as well (ya know, we gotta keep things interesting)

-isn't afraid to give me a hard time (but if your gonna dish it, gotta be willing to take it)

-is fun to be around (who wants to be with someone who is boring? yeah...that's what i thought)

-tells me i'm enough (even when i feel as though i'm not)

-is my best friend (can't go through life being with someone you don't like...thats lame.)

ok, for now...i am stopping. haha


Wow! Longer than i thought...i think it's because i stopped running off ideas, and really stopped to think. I know i joke all the time about it...but these things really are important to me. I know that he may not have ALL of these qualities...but some of them is ok....you know the important ones...and they're the ones i need those the most!


*I hope you get my sarcastic parts when you read this, its more funny and less serious. haha